240 Invite Teacher Wu to Have Lunch at Home (3/3)
Time always passes quickly, Friday is already coming, and students are already looking forward to the weekend holiday.
However, for the choir, it was getting more and more nervous.
Because the choir needs to prepare for Saturday’s rehearsals, for the choir children, their weekends may not be on holiday.
After a morning of rehearsal, Lu Chen found that Qi Jiayu was not in high spirits.
It can even be said that Qi Jiayu is very emotionally depressed. She, who has never made any mistakes, actually has the problem of being distracted.
For this reason, Wu Hongxia, a grandmother, scolded Qi Jiayu in person for the first time.
"Qi Jiayu, what's going on with you? Haven't you told you? Don't be affected by other factors. You have to understand that you are a member of this chorus. You must be responsible for your partners. You are a whole."
Faced with grandma's scolding, Qi Jiayu didn't dare to refute it at all, and could only express her understanding with her head down.
Although he was scolded, Qi Jiayu performed much better in the next period.
But as a bystander, Lu Chen still clearly saw the girl's problem.
While resting in the middle of the rehearsal, Lu Chen did not go directly to Qi Jiayu to ask, but first asked Teacher Wu alone.
When Wu Hongxia faced Lu Chen's inquiry, she sighed helplessly.
"Oh, actually, it's my fault. I put too much pressure on Jiayu, and I blame me for not giving her a good couple. The reason why my children suffer such heavy pain is that it's all my grandmother."
After hearing what Teacher Wu said, Lu Chen probably guessed that the problem might be with Qi Jiayu's parents.
"Teacher Wu, can you tell me the situation in detail?
If it is inconvenient, you can also not say it.”
Wu Hongxia did not hide from Lu Chen, and directly introduced Qi Jiayu's parents' situation and also expressed some conflicts at home.
"Actually, I can understand that Jiayu's parents want to create the best conditions for her, so they are working hard.
But I think at least they should take some time to accompany their children.
But the fact is, every time they talk about accompanying their children, they always blame and shirke each other.
Alas, I waited until 12 o'clock last night and no one came back."
After listening to Teacher Wu’s statement, Lu Chen understood the situation of the Qi family and also knew why Qi Jiayu was in this mood today, and she was always easily distracted.
In the eyes of parents, there may be nothing wrong with such a family environment.
Parents feel that they are giving their children the best material conditions for their children.
Then the rest of the things are just for the children to work hard on their own.
But parents do not realize that children need company.
Moreover, children need more often the company of their parents.
This companionship is irreplaceable to others.
Even the grandmother who loves Qi Jiayu very much cannot completely replace her parents' company.
But it is obvious that Qi Jiayu's parents did not really realize this problem.
In other words, they also understand it in their hearts, but they can always find many excuses to make them unconsciously avoid this responsibility.
Children are always very sensitive, and they will be extremely sensitive to all kinds of emotions.
And children often face this situation.
They always wonder, is it because their parents don’t like them?
Do your parents think they are burdensome?
In this case, children will begin to become more self-doubted, unconfident, or even inferior.
Then some self-deprecation or go astray will happen.
Lu Chen attaches great importance to this point.
He felt that this could not become Qi Jiayu's knot.
So we still have to find a way to help Qi Jiayu untie this knot.
"Well, we should really find a way to help Jiayu overcome this hurdle and let her communicate well with her parents so that her parents can understand that their daughter needs their care, not just material satisfaction."
Wu Hongxia also agreed with this, but she obviously had made many attempts.
"Oh, I'm afraid, my son and daughter-in-law don't realize the problem at all."
Lu Chen was silent, and he was not sure about this kind of problem.
Because this kind of thing always varies from person to person.
Some parents do care about their children very little.
Lu Chen also had personal experience in this regard.
Just like Lu Xiaoxi's mother, she doesn't have much care for such a daughter.
In the first few years, I would take time to see my daughter.
Later, the news was completely lost.
Until Lu Chen returned to China, his daughter's mother never even showed up.
Lu Chen couldn't tell how much the other party was at fault for such an indifferent mother.
I can only say that for some people, family affection is not that important.
Now Lu Chen is wondering, what are Qi Jiayu’s parents like?
Will they still value this relationship with their daughter? Will they really care about some of their daughter’s thoughts? Do they do not want to hurt their daughter?
Seeing Lu Chen, he was also silent, and he was also hesitant.
Wu Hongxia patted him and said, "It doesn't matter. I will try my best to relieve Jiayu, and I believe it will not affect the performance."
Hearing Teacher Wu’s words, Lu Chen came to his senses and said quickly: “No, Teacher Wu, that’s not what I mean.
I always hope that the children can sing happily.
I hope they are enjoying the singing process.
Instead of caring about the results of the performance.
So I will think about it carefully, and then come up with a solution to try to help you solve the problems of Jiayu’s parents.”
Wu Hongxia was a little surprised. She didn't expect that Lu Chen would have such an idea.
If others said this, Wu Hongxia might have scoffed at it.
But when facing Lu Chen and seeing his firm and sincere gaze, Wu Hongxia would feel that he was sincere.
Wu Hongxia was silent for a moment and said, "Let's find a way to do this matter together, you don't have to worry too much. After all, many things may not always be as simple as we think."
Lu Chen nodded: "Yes, Teacher Wu, you are right, so let's find a way together."
After the exchange ended, Lu Chen and Wu Hongxia returned to the classroom together.
Then, a new rehearsal was started for the children.
After rest, Qi Jiayu and her classmates chatted and joked for a while, and it was obvious that she became much better.
Maybe especially affected by the always optimistic sister Lu Xiaoxi.
In the following rehearsals, Qi Jiayu obviously performed much better.
The morning time is basically spent in rehearsals. In the middle, Lu Chen also played a part for the students, which was to relieve the pressure on the children and also intentionally enhance the children's music.
At noon, Lu Chen sent an invitation to Teacher Wu and Qi Jiayu very directly.
"Teacher Wu, Jiayu, if you don't dislike it, go home and have a meal with us at noon.
Of course, Feng Ximing is also together.
Qi Jiayu, are you willing to go?"
Qi Jiayu didn't expect that Teacher Lu would invite her directly.
The girl looked at her grandmother, then looked at her two sisters who were also invited by her. Finally, the girl nodded with a smile on her face and agreed: "I'm willing, I'm willing to go."
Chapter completed!