Although Xu Xuecai was very unwilling to give up and reluctant to leave, he still had to get up and leave.

Because Zhou Zhou was really angry!

If he didn't leave, Zhou Zheng could pick up the teacup and splash it all over him.

As soon as the person left, Wang Lin laughed and fell down.

Zhou Zhu could no longer help, so he opened his fingers and grabbed Wang Lin: "I told you to laugh, I asked you to laugh! You came to accompany me on a blind date, are you here to help me! Have you helped me?"

Wang Lin said: "I have been helping you!"

Zhou Zhou bit her lip: "Who are these people! No one is normal!"

Wang Lin said: "Actually, they are all quite normal. It's just that you are not on the same level as them."

Zhou Zhu said: "What level?"

Wang Lin said: "Do you know why Bodhidharma wanted to pass on the cassock and iron robe to Huineng?"

Zhou Zhou shook her head gently: "Why? I don't know."

Wang Lin picked up the teacup, took a sip, and said slowly: "Because Huineng understood the principles of impermanence, all dharmas have no self, and nirvana and silence. Only by knowing that there is nothing in the world can we further realize that nothing is gone.

There are flowers, moons and towers. Tea scholars generally believe that only by realizing the realm of nothingness can one create the true realm of Zen tea. Nothing is the source of the artistic creation of tea ceremony. This is the level, that is, the realm."

Zhou Zhu said: "I still don't understand, don't drop the bag of books! I know you have the ability to say something that I can understand."

Wang Lin said: "In life, there are differences in the realm of realm. People with high realm face and enjoy a big world; people with low realm face and enjoy a small world. The classics of Zhuangzi two thousand years ago

The story hides the size of a person's realm and pattern."

Zhou Zhu was fascinated by the fact that he heard it: "Really or not? Is this a famous saying by a celebrity? Or did you fabricate it?"

Wang Lin said: "This is Mr. Feng Youlan's discussion in "A Brief History of Philosophy."

Zhou Zhu said, "Is that so? Then tell me, what kind of state does a person have?"

Wang Lin said: "This is a long-term discussion."

"Long story short!"

"Do not stagnate in things, do not trap in the heart, do not chaotic in people, do not be confused in nature."

"What does it mean? Explain it more clearly."

"Look, I'm short, you can't understand it. If I say it carefully, you'll say I'm verbally."

"You might explain it, right?"

"This is the four levels of human realm. The first level of human realm: not stagnating with things without greed. The "Tao Te Ching" says: Be content without being humiliated, knowing to stop without being in danger, and you can last for a long time. Once a person relies on material things, it will inevitably lead to

Will lose your pure self, greed is a deep groove that can never be filled. The peach blossom fairy Tang Bohu once laughed at myself: Others laughed at me for being too crazy, but I laughed at me for not seeing through. He would rather die between peach blossoms and fine wine than

Bow and flatter in front of the carriage and horse. Although in a room with only one bed, one table, and one chair, you can still play the piano and read classics and be content. You cannot rely on external objects and do not indulge in matters, and you will reach the end of your life.

A level of realm.”

"Tsk tsk, amazing! Tang Bohu, the four talents, has reached the first level of life?"

"Yes, most people live in a mess, in a daze, and in a mediocre way, and have no realm at all."

"What about the second level of realm? How do you say it?"

"The second level of human beings is not trapped in the heart and without being tired. The human heart is a limited container. If it is filled with golden tiles and red walls, it cannot hold the mountains and rivers; if it is filled with fame and fortune, it cannot hold the freedom of body and mind.

There is a story about Huizi Xiangliang in Zhuangzi. You should have learned it? This is the case."

Zhou Zhu said: "I seem to remember one thing that Huizi is the prime minister of Liang State. I heard that Zhuangzi came to visit and was afraid that he would take away his position. Zhuangzi described himself as a southern turtle bird that would not live in the sycamore tree.

, do not eat until practice, and do not drink until sweet spring. An owl was eating a rotten mouse with relish, and the wool flew over the top of his head. The owl hurriedly protected the rotten mouse and looked up at it: Frighten! Zhuangzi

He said to Huizi again: Now you also want to use your Liang Kingdom to 'scar me'?"

Wang Lin praised: "Look, how high your realm is, right?"

Zhou Zhu said: "Stop talking nonsense, where is the third level?"

Wang Lin said: "The third level of human beings is not confused and not trapped. Zhuangzi's wife died. Hui Shi went to pay his respects. When Zhuangzi was spreading his legs, he sat on the ground with his legs spread apart, and knocking on the tiles.

Singing. Huishi believes that Zhuangzi's dead wife and Zhuangzi lived for the rest of their lives. Zhuangzi not only did not feel sad, but also knocked on the clay pot and sang, which was too much. Zhuangzi recited a poem: People say I am not sad, but I laughed at the world with heartbreak.

If I still cry when I die, I will be sad and cry."

Zhou Zhou pondered and seemed to have realized something.

Wang Lin said: "Wen Zhengming, a calligrapher and painter in the Ming Dynasty, wanted to draw a painting that everyone loved. He asked everyone to mark the shortcomings in the painting, but every brush and ink were pointed out to be inadequate. He asked everyone to mark the same painting.

There is a satisfactory place, but all the pens and inks that have been criticized have been replaced with praise. There is no painting in the world that everyone loves, nor is there a person who will always be praised. A mature person never

Evaluating others easily will not live in other people's evaluations. You are you, unique and not confused by others, and it is the third level of life."

Zhou Zhu nodded seriously, indicating that he understood.

Wang Lin said: "The fourth level of human beings: there is no confusion if they do not lose their nature. Zhuangzi and his disciples walked to the foot of a mountain and saw a big tree with lush branches and leaves standing beside the stream. Zhuangzi asked the logger, "

Why no one cut down a tall tree? The logger replied: This tree is of no use at all. When used as a boat, the boat will sink to the bottom of the water. The pillars used as a house are easily corroded by insects because it is not

A tree that has become a timber tree can have such a long life without cutting it down. Zhuangzi said: Only when a tree does not become a timber can it avoid disaster; if a person does not become a talent, it can also protect himself. Everyone knows that it is useful, but not

Useless use.”

Zhou Zhu said: "Does Zhuangzi say it must be correct? Zhuangzi lives in a farming society. Does his words still have positive significance in the current industrial society?"

Wang Lin smiled and said, "If you can question it, it is already more than most scholars. The trees are curved and cannot be used, but they cannot hinder their free growth. In life, each has its own way of living, and under different standards, there are

Different values. Zhuangzi's thoughts may be abandoned by many people, but they will also be regarded as the standard by many people."

After a moment of contemplation, Wang Lin said again: "Leo Tolstoy said: The value of life is not measured by time, but by depth. We always ask ourselves, how to live our life in order to

Living what you want most? Perhaps Zhuangzi's story is the best answer: not stuck in things, not trapped in the heart, not confused in others, and not confused in nature. The body can dance with shackles, and the mind must be inserted

On the wings of freedom.”

Zhou Zhu was shocked!

At this time, a handsome young man came over. His hair was combed meticulously, his face was as beautiful as a crown of jade, and his clothes were dressed very well. He looked low-key but had an inner luxury, which was very similar to Wang Lin.

The young man smiled slightly: "Teahouse! That's right, this beautiful girl must be Comrade Zhou Zhu, right?"

Zhou Zhu nodded: "I am Zhou Zhu. Are you?"

"Hello Zhou Zhu, I am Guo Hui, I am here to date you. I have seen your photos and heard some of your resumes. I never date you, but I have developed a strong interest in you, so

Come here with liberation. No matter whether you can successfully go on a blind date today, at least, I can meet an excellent woman and a self-reliant female friend! This is also my biggest gain."

"Comrade Guo Hui, hello, please sit down." Zhou Zhou also became interested in the conversation.

"Thank you." Guo Hui opened a bag, took out a handful of red roses wrapped in transparent plastic bags, and handed them to Zhou Zhu, "On the way here, I saw an old woman selling flowers. I saw the cold wind and cold wind.

The woman was very pitiful, so she bought them all, and there were exactly 33 flowers. I heard that they meant three lives and three lives. I don’t understand these, I don’t know if it’s the meaning?”

Zhou Zhou's eyes lit up and she smiled, "Your story is too coincidental, right?"

"If I was interested in buying it in a flower shop, it must be packaged into a bouquet of flowers." Guo Hui smiled, "If you like bouquets of flowers, I can now unpack them and repackage them. I was anxious before

Come to your date, so there is no time to do this.”

Zhou Zhu picked up a flower, put it under Qiong’s nose and sniffed it gently, and said, “It smells so fragrant! I like to smell it with a gentle fragrance!”

Guo Hui took out another exquisite and cute doll and handed it to Zhou Zhu: "It's a coincidence. I just came back from Dongyang. This is a gift I bought in Dongyang. The children at home gave it all, and there are still some left.

I heard that you have a daughter who has just entered kindergarten, so I brought her here. I hope she can like it - didn't you bring the child?"

Wang Lin suddenly felt a sense of crisis.

There are still good men in this world, and there are definitely men who conform to Zhou Zhu’s aesthetics and values!

If she really meets her, will she agree to date the other party impulse?

Zhou Jun, Li Wenxiu and others, who were sitting not far away, were paying attention to the actions here.

Seeing this, Li Wenxiu smiled and said, "A reliable man finally came. I think he came with sincerity. He and Zhou Zhu are also very compatible. Zhou Zhu's marriage will definitely be successful this time!"

Zhou Jun and his eldest sister looked at each other.

If this is done, what will Zhou Bao and Wang Lin do?

Will they really break up?

I originally agreed to go through a formality!

Wang Lin smiled and said, "Yes, I think they are really compatible, both men and women are beautiful! But Zhou Zhu's requirements are probably higher!"

No anti-theft

Zhou Jun said: "Yes, my sister has high requirements! Ordinary men cannot catch her eyes. Xiaoxia, it would be great if you had a blind date, this man would be more suitable for you!"

Zhou Xia sneered: "Why is the man whom Zhuzhu looks at me suitable for me? My vision and requirements must be lower than her?"

Zhou Jun said: "Aren't you still single?"

Li Wenxiu said: "Isn't Zhou Zhu single too?"

The Zhou family members stopped talking immediately.
To be continued...