Chapter 925
Children born after the change of opening up have become better and better living conditions. Parents give their children 60% of their energy and have begun to lament that raising children is not easy. If you can eat enough, you must study nutritional balance, and if you can wear warm, you must study styles and colors. Going to school is already a standard, but you cannot lose at the starting line. You have to attend the cram school and interest class after class. If there are more cars on the road, you cannot let your children run around. If other children start to learn English, then you can also go to the college entrance examination. The whole family is ready for the first-level battle, but can't pass the exam? Mom and dad save money to send it to you abroad!
But I feel that raising children is easy now, and the more I go back, I feel more tired, just like serving my ancestors, but I haven’t finished it.
The parents gave the best to the children and did not say thank you. Instead, they kept waiting for their parents to say sorry to them.
Why? Because parents are too strict with each other and have no freedom.
"What are you thinking?" Lin Xiyan asked, looking at Hua Banzhi, who was obviously Hua outside the world.
"Oh! Nothing?" Hua Banzhi came back to her senses and shook her head slightly.
"What's there obviously?" Lin Xiyan looked straight at her with amber eyes.
"I want to say that being a parent is a very profound knowledge. Raising a child is not just for him to eat and drink, but he is dedicated. A real parent is not a breeder who raises children in captivity, but a person who protects and guides children to grow up healthily and moves towards the future." Hua Banzhi looked at them and said.
"Hey! Are you not a child yet? You are so deeply moved." Qin Kaise tilted his head slightly and looked at her and jokingly, and looked at Lin Xiyan embarrassedly after he finished speaking. This was really a mistake.
"Let's learn first!" Hua Banzhi looked at her and said with a smile.
"I'm planning to have a child when I hear this." Qin Kaise looked at her with a bright look on his face.
"Yes!" Hua Banzhi nodded and responded.
Qin Kaiser raised his eyes and looked at Lin Xiyan when he heard this, and blinked at him. It was not what I mentioned!
"What do you think Xiyan is doing?" Hua Banzhi looked at Qin Kaise curiously and asked.
"Oh! That's right?" Qin Kaise said embarrassedly, "I urged Xiyan last year. I'm not young anymore, so I'll have a child quickly. As a result, he scolded me. Today, you mentioned it on your own. No matter what my business is."
"Hehe..." Hua Banzhi smiled when she heard this and looked at Lin Xiyan apologetically, this fool.
Qin Kaise was just talking, and his hands naturally slowed down, so the two babies were reluctant, and they were babbling.
"Hurry up, don't talk." He Hongjun urged to look at Qin Kaise.
"Okay, okay, let's continue." Qin Kaise looked at the children's doting smile and continued to play the erhu.
Not long after, the two babies had enough lying down and could no longer lie down, so they started to make trouble.
Qin Kaise quickly handed the erhu to Lin Xiyan, looked at He Hongjun and said, "Let's go to the playground. It's lively and can consume their energy."
"Let's go find your brother, be good! Let's go find your brother!" He Hongjun stood up and looked at the two treasures and coaxed him.
"We're leaving." Qin Kaise looked at them.
Before Hua Banzhi and the others could react, the couple pushed the stroller and disappeared in front of them in the blink of an eye.
"Haha...it's like a war." Hua Banzhi smiled, "You said, will we be like them?" He turned his head and looked at him and said, "You are not allowed to spoil your children, spoil your children as if you were killing them."
"Where is your boundary?" Lin Xiyan asked at her with a slight squinted eyes.
"Haha... Could it be that you still have to hold a ruler to measure it?" Hua Banzhi looked at him with a smile and joked, and suddenly looked at him and said seriously, "There are no perfect parents in this world, and there are no perfect children. Are we ready to be parents?"
"What you said seems that everyone is ready, and no one can learn to grow up through stumbling." Lin Xiyan looked at her and shook her head and chuckled, "Isn't this the joy of life? Don't you often say: Live until you are old, learn until you are old!" He looked at her curiously and said, "You should tell me the standards!"
"How should I say this?" Hua Banzhi scratched her chin and said, "For example, baby crying! How to coax it?"
"Then you have to analyze the specific problems!" Lin Xiyan looked at her with clear eyes and said, "If you are hungry or dirty your diapers, you must hold them!"
"What if it's unreasonable? Do you care? Or do you still try to hold it after a few shots. If you really can't hold it, then put it down." Hua Banzhi looked at him with a playful face and said.
"Is this? In our situation, of course we have to do our best." Lin Xiyan pursed his lips and thought carefully.
"What if you want to keep holding it all the time? Do you have to take turns to coax it? The baby thinks this is not enough. It is not enough to hold it horizontally, it is not enough to hold it vertically, it is not enough to go out to see the world. Not only to hold it, but to walk. It is not enough at home, go out to see the flowers, grass and sky, and you can carry me out! Don't stop, get up! Don't stop..."
Lin Xiyan shook his head and laughed, "What do you want to say? The child will never be satisfied and will always ask for more."
"Well! The desire is unsatisfactory." Hua Banzhi nodded at him.
"But my grandma will always respond to my requests, and she did not develop a lawless personality." Lin Xiyan looked at her and said with a smile, raised her chin slightly and said, "Am I bad?" She looked at her and said, "Leave the child's upbringing to me."
Hua Banzhi smiled embarrassedly when she heard this. She was obsessed with her. Her background is much better than her who has never raised a child.
"Then I'll ask you." Hua Banzhi said with a smile as she looked at him with a smile on her arms.
"I don't know if I have a question, I'm asking or not." Hua Banzhi said hesitantly as he looked at him.
"What do you mean?" Lin Xiyan picked up the erhu and continued the waltz just now.
"Would you be unwilling to give up? You are so unknown. Raise children and take care of them." Hua Banzhi said with a look at him without a moment.
Lin Xiyan's expression remained unchanged when he heard this, and even the sound of the piano did not fluctuate. "To use a popular saying now, life only has different divisions of labor, regardless of gender, they all contribute to this family." Looking at her, she smiled and said, "You see, Brother He used to be the oil bottle that was poured and he didn't support his boss. Now he is wearing an apron, washing clothes, cooking, and taking care of his children, and doing it vigorously! But can you say he is not the head of the family?"
Hua Banzhi looked at him gently when she heard this, and smiled sweetly, "You are really more and more able to speak."
Lin Xiyan looked at her with affectionate smile without saying a word, picked up the erhu, this time the speed in her hand became faster, and the song became lively and cheerful.
The afterglow of the sunset made the shadows of the two men long. Suddenly, the sound of birds singing came from the trees, and the music of joy made everything particularly romantic and warm.
Chapter completed!